2010年英语教学大纲及样题

2010年 英语 关于好奇心的名言警句英语高中英语词汇下载高中英语词汇 下载英语衡水体下载小学英语关于形容词和副词的题 教学大纲及样 题 快递公司问题件快递公司问题件货款处理关于圆的周长面积重点题型关于解方程组的题及答案关于南海问题 2010级《大学英语》(二)课程教学大纲 课程编号: 2 课程性质:必修课 课程名称(中文):大学英语 课程适用专业:非英语专业 课程适用层次:专升本 (英文):College English 课程类型:公共基础课 先修课程:专科/高中英语 一学年最少学时: 144(夜大);96(函授) 学分:9 一、第二学期课程内容和要求 学期 学时 内容 第二学期 业余72学时 1.《英语》(第五册)共上81) 堂上教各单元的Text A 函授48学时 个单元(1-8单元); 2) 指导课后学各单元Text B 2. 艺术类:《英语》(第四册) 6—10单元。 上课进度 夜大班每单元约7个学时，函授班每单元4~5学时 艺术类进度根据学生程度由任课教师自定。 备注 以阅读为主，兼教 翻译 阿房宫赋翻译下载德汉翻译pdf阿房宫赋翻译下载阿房宫赋翻译下载翻译理论.doc 、写作、听力和口语 二、成绩评定 学生成绩单上反映的应该是学生一学期以来的总评成绩，以100分为最高分值，包括期末考试卷面成绩和平时成绩。计算办法如下: 总评成绩=70,的期末考试卷面成绩 + 30,的平时成绩。 平时成绩主要来自是过程评估，包括: 1) 课堂出勤率:根据学生手册，函授、夜大旷课20%或请假40%，不允许参加该门课程的考核，考试成绩以0分计算。 2) 完成作业情况; 3) 学习表现: 回答问题, 小组活动等; 4) 课堂小测验。 三、课程参考资料 1、教 材: 广东省成人高等教育英语系列教材《英语》第五册(艺术类:第四册) 中山大学出版社 2008年11月 1 2010级《大学英语》(二)课程考试大纲 1(考试形式:闭卷 2(考试时间与组织形式: 第二学期末统一考试，由继续教育学院确定考试时间和组织考试。 3(试卷结构 1)题型:试卷分为客观题和主观题两大类题型。客观题包括:词汇与结构、完型填空、阅读理解，占总分的80,;主观题包括:翻译和写作，占20%。 2)试卷结构描述 题号 内容 题量 记分 说明1 说明2 (百分比) 词汇题均来自本学期 所学的Text A和Text 词汇和语法题量的B和各单元词汇练词汇与结构 30道 30, 比例:20道词汇题，I 习;语法题主要来自10道语法题 本学期所学《学习辅 导》上的语法题 4篇文4篇文章，均配有四来自教材中的A课文阅读理解 40, II 章，20道 选一题目 和自测题 来自教材Text A的段完型填空 10道 四选一题型 III 10% 落 来自于学生用 书 关于书的成语关于读书的排比句社区图书漂流公约怎么写关于读书的小报汉书pdf 上的汉译英 5句 10, 句子 IV 相关练习 学生用书上的相关练写作 1道 短文 V 10% 习 总计 6项 76道 100, 时间总计:120分钟 4(模拟题(该试卷主要用于展示题型和难度) 2 Model Test Paper (本试卷共有五大题，满分 100 分，考试时间 120 分钟) I. Vocabulary and Structure (30%) Part A Directions: There are two columns in this section. Match the words in Column A with their explanations in Column B. Write your answers in the box on the ANSWER SHEET. Column A Column B 1. fuel A. 地基;基础 2. consume B. 仅仅;几乎不能 3. distribution C. 魅力;魔力 4. decade D. 主持 5. favorable E. 适度的;谦虚的 6. modest F. 燃料 7. barely G. 赞成的;有利的 8. foundation H. 分配 9. glamour I. 十年 10. host J. 消耗 Part B Directions: There are 20 incomplete sentences in this section. For each sentence there are 4 choices marked A, B, C and D. Choose the one that best completes the sentence. Mark your answer on the ANSWER SHEET with a single line through the center. . 1. John did quite well in his exams, ___________ how little he had studied. A. including B. judging C. considering D. being 2. Two men ____________ her and pushed her to the ground. A. grabbed B. found C. oversaw D. underlay 3. The authorities have refused to _________ him a visa to visit the U.S.. A. deliver B. grant C. appoint D. permit 4. The __________ of students find it quite hard to live on the amount of money they got. A. majority B. banquet C. driveway D. confines 5. It is a great __________ to know that the children were safe. A. emission B. relief C. standard D. drain 6. At the border you will be asked about your _________ and how long you plan to stay. A. automobile B. Asset C. implication D. destination 7. Don’t ____________ your Accounts Department to manage the cash flow for you. A. rely on B. care for C. be based on D. be responsible for 8. Two hundred people showed up for the wedding, about 50 more than we ____________ planned. A. frequently B. originally C. actually D. madly 3 9. Everyone is rushing around trying to get things done—we all need to ____________ and take it easy. A. slow down B. cut down C. trade in D. depend on 10. For the first time, she realized the ___________ danger of her situation. A. high B. swift C. potential D. prior 11. There isn’t __________ food in the house. A. none B. no C. some D. any 12. The number of the class ___________ limited to fifteen. A. have been B. is C. are D. were 13. “I don’t like to travel.” “Have you ever ___________ in an airplane?” A. flying B. flew C. flowed D. flown 14. Perhaps it will be a long time ___________ from abroad. A. when Tom comes back B. when Tom will come back C. before Tom comes back D. that Tom comes back 15. He is more diligent than ___________ in his class. A. all the students B. anyone C. any other student D. everyone 16. Americans eat ___________ vegetables per person today as they did in 1910. A. more than twice B. as twice as many C. twice as many as D. more than twice as many 17. If we don’t start out now, we’ll have to risk ____________ the train. A. miss B. missing C. being missed D. to miss 18. It is of much importance that you ____________ here on time. A. be B. shall be C. are to be D. must be 19. Mike’s uncle insists ____________ in this hotel. A. staying B. not to stay C. that he would not stay D. that he not stay 20. _____________ he works hard, I don’t mind when he finishes the experiment. A. As soon as B. As well as C. So far as D. As long as II( Reading Comprehension (40%) Directions: In this part, you will read 4 passages. Read the passages carefully and choose the best answer to each question from the four choices marked A, B, C, and D. Then mark the corresponding letter on the ANSWER SHEET with a single line through the center. Passage One Despite all the glamour and glitz of the Oscars there is a good reason for people to be there, not for the films, but for the dresses. And short of wearing a dazzling dress you can actually win an award, and sometimes people will remember you. If you want to be noticed, and more importantly if you want to be on the front page of the next day’s newspapers, you need to give a good speech. But the trick is this, you don’t really have to sound special, in fact you can be anything you want to be, as long as it’s entertaining. There are many ways in which you can grab attention at the Oscars. But there are some who specifically use the ceremony and all the attention it receives, to make themselves heard. Year 2002 was filled with tension over the Iraq war. The only person that night to discuss the war was Adrien Brody, making his speech for winning Best Actor for The Pianist. 4 Let’s face it, the Oscar moments we remember best are the ones when our strong and noble actresses fall foul of their emotions. In 1998, Gwyneth Paltrow picked up a well-deserved Best Actress for Shakespeare in Love. She was universally laughed at for crying throughout her speech, but considering that her grandfather was on his death bed, the woman should really have been excused for becoming so emotional. Despite the Academy’s attempt at being the most important thing on stage it is always individual performances that steal the show. In 1991, Jack Palance got up on stage to pick up his Oscar for Best Supporting Actor (for City Slicker) and in an effort to show off his physique at the age of 71, he began a set of one armed pushups, much to the delight of the audience. 1. What can make those attending the Oscars appear on the front page of the next day’s newspaper? A. Sounding special. B. The films they starred C. Their smiles. D. An entertaining speech 2. Who made a speech about war when he/she got the award? A. Oscars B. Gwyneth Paltrow C. Adrien Brody D. Jack Palance 3. What did Gwyneth Paltrow do when she delivered her speech? A. She didn’t say a word on the stage. B. She refused to go to the stage to accept the award. C. She broke into tears and cried throughout her speech. D. She told the audience that her grandfather had just died. 4. How did Jack Palance impress the audience at the ceremony? A. He did a set of one armed pushups. B. He danced as a professional ballet dancer. C. He got up on the stage to grab the award. D. He told a joke he invented himself. 5. What is the passage mainly about? A. How to make yourself heard at the Oscar ceremony. B. How to make a speech at the Oscar ceremony. C. How to be fashionable at the Oscar ceremony. D. How to be noticed at the Oscar ceremony. Passage Two More than two thirds of consumers reported that they are combining their shopping trips, and 39 percent say they are staying home more often and cutting down on non-essential living expenses to offset the cost of gas, according to a new survey. Black motorists, many like Duane Stewart, are adjusting to the gas price shock in numerous ways. They are carpooling, using mass transit more frequently, scaling back on vacations, riding bicycles, and even walking more often. Other motorists are purchasing fuel-efficient hybrid cars or seeking to convert their cars to use fuel alternatives such as alcohol and, oddly enough, vegetable oil. Some motorists who rely on vehicles daily to do their jobs are cutting back on driving to complete tasks. They are using the Internet more to conduct business, and combining trips or relocating to shorten their trips. For most Americans, giving up the car is not an option. It’s part of their businesses. No matter how expensive it gets, they have to pay it. 5 When it comes to cutting high gas prices, African-Americans are making lifestyle changes to cope, but economists forecast that higher gas prices and increases in the cost of living will continue. Here are a few changes you can make to save money at the gas pump: , Switch to alternative forms of travel such as bicycles, public transportation, carpools, walking or even golf carts. , Consider making your next car purchase a hybrid or E-85 (alcohol-based) vehicle. , Use teleconferences, e-mail or the Internet instead of driving to business meetings. , Slow down. You will use less gas if you stay at or below 55 mph on the highway. 6. According to the survey, the consumers ________. A. stay at home to do their work B. like to do shopping near their houses C. spend more on non-essential living expenses D. are cutting down on the expenses of gas 7. To adjust to the gas price shock, Duane Stewart does the following EXCEPT _________. A. Carpooling B. Riding bicycles C. Shopping less often D. Walking more often 8. The motorists who rely on vehicles daily are using ________ more to conduct business. A. fuel alternatives B. the Internet C. telephones D. vegetable oil 9. How important is the car to most Americans? A. Their business cannot be done without it. B. It’s an option. C. It’s the only vehicle they rely on. D. It makes their life convenient. 10. Economists forecast that ___________. A. gas prices will drop B. African-Americans will change their lifestyle C. gas prices and living cost will continue to rise D. more Americans will put their money in the bank Passage Three When you walk down a well-stocked supermarket passage in the U.S., it seems hard to believe that about 840 million people worldwide, including 200 million children, do not have enough food to eat each day. Females require an average of 2,200 calories a day minimum, while males need about 2,500—3,000 calories. Believe it or not, the world’s 1 billion farmers produce about 3,800 calories of grain, meat, and other food products per person per day—more than enough to feed everyone under the sun. Over the past four decades, the world’s food supply has grown even faster than the population, thanks to fertilizers, pesticides, and improved farming techniques. Plants become more fruitful and resistant to drought, insects and diseases. So why are so many people still starving? The answer is pure and simple: distribution—getting food to the right places. Many poor countries do not grow enough food to feed their own residents. And their governments can’t afford to pay for imported foods. Wars, inadequate transportation systems, as well as droughts, floods, and other natural disasters also affect the food supply. Even if getting food to the hungry were not a problem, population experts would still worry: what effect will billions of people have on the environment? 6 Every day, each of us taps into the Earth’s resources, not only for food and water, but also for energy, land, shelter, clothing and other life necessities. The U.S., with only 5 percent of the world’s population, consumes 25 percent of the world’s fossil fuels. As our need for living space increases, we move into the habitats of many other species, endangering their survival. At the same time, we pollute land, air, water, and even outer space. The world’s growing population is putting unbelievably great stress on resources and intense pressures on the environment, says Henry Kendall, a professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. “We are putting our future in danger”, he warns. 11. In the well-stocked American supermarket, ________ A. it is hard to find the food you like most B. you won’t believe that some people are still starving C. you cannot buy everything you need for your daily life D. it is hard to believe that you won’t get the best service 12. Over the past four decades, the world’s food supply has grown __________ the population. A. more slowly than B. as fast as C. faster than D. twice faster than 13. Why are many people still starving? A. Because their governments refuse to import foods for them. B. Because they are not hard working. C. Because they don’t have enough land to grow food. D. Because food is not distributed to them. 14. What effect does the large population have on the environment? A. It has polluted the environment. B. It is putting great stress on resources. C. The resources are almost used up. D. Both A and B. 15. What is the passage mainly about? A. The problems the growing population is facing. B. The history of world’s population. C. The ways to increase food supply. D. The environmental protection. Passage Four I first realized I have a problem while hiking in the Himalayas. There I was—11,000 feet above sea level, walking along narrow dirt paths among wild cows and Buddhist monks when I spotted a sign in front of a little store: “Internet access inside.” Soon, I was reading stupid jokes forwarded via e-mail by friends back home. Then I felt a sudden distress: What’s wrong with me? I’m in maybe the most beautiful place on earth, yet I’m huddled in a small room without any fresh air, staring at a computer monitor. Did I really hike all this way to do what I really already spend too much time doing back home? Most nights, my girlfriend and I sit on the sofa, watching television on one of hundreds of digital cable channels. We each have a notebook computer—linked to the Internet through a wireless network—in our laps. Moreover, our cell phones sit within easy reach. At any given 7 moment, we can watch TV, check our e-mail, surf various websites and chat with a friend. But wouldn’t it be nice every now and then to have a pleasant one-on-one conversation? Sure, it happens, but the more we’ve gotten used to keeping all this stuff turned on, the harder it gets to turn any of it off. I am completely involved in a lifestyle that lets me access the Web anywhere, anytime. Living this way is a blessing and a curse. This kind of life cannot be imagined a decade ago. A recent American Online survey found that 60 percent of e-mail users check theirs on vacation. Forty percent have clicked on their in-boxes in the middle of the night; 23 percent have actually checked e-mail in bed, in their night-suit. And 4 percent have checked e-mail in the bathroom! When getting on line begins to compete with basic bodily functions, I’d say we’re losing perspective. 16. What did the sign “Internet access inside” mean? A. You may connect to the Internet inside. B. Internet access is free of charge inside. C. There is no Internet access in the store. D. Visitors cannot access the Internet inside. 17. What did the author feel when sitting in the computer room? A. Glad. B. Distressed. C. Disappointed. D. Free 18. What do the writer and his girlfriend usually NOT do in the evening? A. Watching television B. Making or answering phone calls C. Logging in to the Internet. D. Talking to each other. 19. We can conclude from Paragraphs 3 and 4 that __________. A. We need more convenient communication. B. Our life is lack of one-on-one conversation. C. Our lifestyle is not much different from that a decade ago. D. We can work at home once our computer is linked to the Internet. 20. According to the American Online survey, the Internet _________. A. has brought pleasure to our life B. has kept us in touch with others wherever we are C. has shortened our sleeping time D. has interfered (妨碍) with our relaxation III( Cloze (10%) Directions: There are 10 blanks in the following passage. For each blank there are four choices marked A, B, C and D. You should choose the one that best fits into the passage. Then mark the corresponding letter on the ANSWER SHEET with a single line through the center. For years, experts suspected that gender makes a big difference in depression. Studies from New York to New Zeland have repeatedly found the ___1___ startling statistic: About twice as many women as men suffer ___2___ depression. That finding was considered one of the basic facts of modern ___3___ health. Yet is has recently come under attack from critics who, concerned 8 about under-reporting of male depression, are ___4___ a question: Do men actually experience it as much as women ___5___? Harvard psychologist William Pollak, PhD, is leading the charge against the huge depression gender ___6___. Director of the Center for Men at McLean Hospital, Pollack ___7___ that men’s rate of depression may be nearly equal to ___8___. Just look at suicide ___9___, he says: Male suicides outnumber females ___10___ four to one. 1. A. strange B. same C. different D. huge 2. A. from B. in C. at D. of 3. A. physical B. mental C. ill D. good 4. A. discussing B. answering C. considering D. raising 5. A. do B. suffer C. get D. take 6. A. difference B. role C. gap D. issue 7. A. describes B. doubts C. suggests D. argues 8. A. the number B. it C. women’s D. women 9. A. attacks B. rates C. bombing D. notes 10. A. for B. from C. by D. with IV( Translation (10%) Directions: There are 5 Chinese sentences to be translated. Put them into English, using the words or expressions given in the brackets. Write your translation on the ANSWER SHEET. 1. 好多方面你都跟你的爸爸很相近。(in many ways) 2. 目前几家大医院都在裁员。(cut back on) 3. 她在父亲生病期间一直照料着他。(care for) 4. 他们因为坐不起出租车而步行。(afford to) 5. 我好像总是赚得越多就花得越多。(the more… the more…) V( Writing (10%) Directions: Write a short passage of at least 100 words entitled “What Can We Get from Books” on the ANSWER SHEET. The composition should be based on the outlines given below: 1. Books are our greatest friends. 2. Books are treasures they bring us knowledge. 3. Books not only give us knowledge but also give us pleasure. 9 答案 I. Vocabulary and Structure (30%) Part A 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. F J H I G E B A C D Part B 1—5 CABAB 6—10 DABAC 11—15 DBDCC 16—20 DBADD II( Reading Comprehension (40%) Passage 1: 1—5 DCCAD Passage 2: 6—10 DCBAC Passage 3: 11—15 BCDDA Passage 4: 16—20 ABDBD III( Cloze (10%) 1—5 BABDA 6—10 CDCBC IV( Translation (10%) 1. You’re very close to your daddy in many ways. 2. Several major hospitals are cutting back on staff at the moment. 3. She cared for her father all through his illness. 4. They walked because they couldn’t afford to take a taxi. 5. It always seems like the more I earn, the more I spend. V( Writing (10%) 略 10 下面的是2016年经典励志语录，需要的朋友可以欣 赏，不需要的朋友下载后可以编辑删除～～谢谢～～ 1、有来路，没退路;留退路，是绝路。 2、为目标，晚卧夜半，梦别星辰，脚踏实地，凌云舍我其谁! 3、做一题会一题，一题决定命运。 4、静下来，铸我实力;拼上去，亮我风采。 5、拼一载春秋，搏一生无悔。 6、狠抓基础是成功的基础，持之以恒是胜利的保证。 7、把汗水变成珍珠，把梦想变成现实! 8、拧成一股绳，搏尽一份力，狠下一条心，共圆一个梦。 9、每天都是一个起点，每天都有一点进步，每天都有一点收获! 10、22.对命运承诺，对承诺负责 11、我自信，故我成功，我行，我一定能行。 12、不敢高声语，恐惊读书人。 13、高三高考高目标，苦学善学上好学。 14、争分夺秒巧复习，勤学苦练创佳绩、攀蟾折桂，舍我其谁。 11 15、眼泪不是我们的答案，拼搏才是我们的选择。 16、站在新起点，迎接新挑战，创造新成绩。 17、遇难心不慌，遇易心更细。 18、乐学实学，挑战高考;勤勉向上，成就自我。 19、努力造就实力，态度决定高度 20、忘时，忘物，忘我。诚实，朴实，踏实。 21、精神成人，知识成才，态度成全。 22、作业考试化，考试高考化，将平时考试当高考，高考考试当平时。 23、我高考我自信我成功! 24、23.再苦再累不掉队，再难再险不放弃 25、拼搏高考，今生无悔;越过高三，追求卓越! 26、挑战人生是我无悔的选择，决胜高考是我不懈的追求。 27、山高不厌攀，水深不厌潜，学精不厌苦:追求! 28、学练并举，成竹在胸，敢问逐鹿群雄今何在?师生同志，协力攻关，笑看燕赵魁首谁 人得。 29、快马加鞭君为先，自古英雄出少年。 30、太阳每天都是新的，你是否每天都在努力。 31、把握现在、就是创造未来。 32、25.我因X班而自豪，X班因我而骄傲 33、我心飞翔，路在脚下。 34、人活着要呼吸。呼者，出一口气;吸者，争一口气 12 35、辛苦三年，幸福一生。 36、精神成就事业，态度决定一切。 2016年经典励志语录二 你一定要坚强，即使受过伤，流过泪，也能咬牙走下去。因为，人生，就是你一个人的人生。 竹子用了4年时间，仅仅长了3cm，从第五年开始，以每天30cm的速度疯狂的生长，仅仅用了六周时间就长到了15米。其实在前面的四年，竹子将根在土壤里延伸了数百平米。做人做事亦是如此，不要担心你此时的付出得不到回报，因为这些付出都是为了扎根。人生需要储备!多少人，没熬过那三厘米! 能够比跌倒的次数多一次站起来的次数，你就是强者! 开始，去做，这是最难的一步。往往，突破了最难的一步以后，或者说，破除了想像中的困难以外，其他的事，可能反而容易。尤其有些事情，上瘾以后，形成习惯，不继续反而不舒服。再好的 方法 快递客服问题件处理详细方法山木方法pdf计算方法pdf华与华方法下载八字理论方法下载 ，对于彻底的、不想上进的懒人是无效的，但既然，生命是属于自己的，愿意行动与否，也还是自己的事。 成功与不成功之间，有时距离是很短的，你只要后退一步或再向前几步。 想得再多不如行动一次;说得再好不如立刻就做!人与人的距离是说与做的差别;人与人的差别是信与愿的有无!凡事实行则无瑕忧虑，空想则寸步难行。无论要做什么立刻行动!马上行动!开始行动! 做一件事情，只有最初五分钟热情的，叫失败者;最后五分钟仍有热情的，叫成功者。 当你周围都是米的时候，你很安逸;当有一天米缸见底，才发现想跳出去已无能为力。有一种陷阱，名叫安逸!别在最能吃苦的年纪选择安逸!没有危机!是最大的危机!自己不上进，危机无处不在吞噬你的理想和灵魂，混下去很容易，混上去太难了! 为什么成功的不是你。年轻的你，迷茫又着急。你想要房子想要汽车，想要旅行想要高品质生活。你不断催促自己成长，却沉不下心来认真读一篇文章;你急切地期待成功，却 13 每次在遇到挫折时提前退缩。既然没有过那些汗水和拼搏，又何必在旁观别人的荣耀与成功时愤愤不平呢?所以，努力吧，别抱怨。 如果你要做一件事，请只管安安静静的去做。因为那是你自己的事，别人不知道你的情况，也不可能帮你实现梦想。千万不要因为虚荣心而炫耀，也不要因为别人一句评价放弃自己的梦想。其实最好的状态，是坚持自己的梦想，听听前辈的建议，少错几步。值不值，时间是最好的证明。 你可以没有梦想，但不能不知道现在要做什么，你可以长相平凡丢到人群里就被淹没，但不能随波逐流成为没有个性的复制品，你可以被压力逼迫得痛哭一百次，但哭完记得笑一千次给它看，你可以习惯为别人付出，但至少别忘了为自己而活，你可以学会假装，但最后不要变成你当初讨厌的那种人。 你比你想象中更勇敢，比你看起来更强大，也比你以为的更聪明。 2016年经典励志语录三 1、如果真的想活得悠闲，那么，为何不学着让自己释放心灵的重负，学着忘却，忘记那些无碍于个人原则的得失;无关大局的磕磕碰碰;无伤大雅的前嫌旧隙呢?学会让自己时时都轻装上阵，潇洒前行! 2、人格的完善是本，财富的确立是末。 3、古人云“隐忍不怒的人，胜于勇者”、“修己冶心的人胜于攻城掠地的将领”。生活中，宽容可以减少人与人之间的隔阂，可以让大家更好地沟通，彼此多一些体贴和关怀。 4、“一个人不能骑两匹马，骑上这匹，就要丢掉那匹，聪明人会把凡是分散精力的要求置之度外。”人的生命和精力是有限的，我们要学会将聚光镜一样，排除一切琐事的干扰，将所有的资料、精力、热情聚焦并锁定你的目标上。 5、一个能从别人的观念来看事情，能了解别人心灵活动的人，永远不必为自己的前途担心。一个人最大的破产是绝望，最大的资产是希望。不要等待机会，而要创造机会。 6、喜欢的最高境界是你可能为她去死，可爱的最高境界是你得为你爱的人好好活着。 14 7、如果人生需要一个完美的符号，没有比微笑更合适的了。微笑，它是甜美的歌声，能唱出生活的快乐;它是温暖的阳光，能驱散心头的阴影;它是无边的春风，能蓬勃事业的生机。 8、微笑可以减轻紧张的情绪和压力，不管面对多么愤怒或者冲动得人，只要微笑示之，都能坦然以对，微笑一把神奇的钥匙，可以打开别人心灵的窗户，传递心灵的善意，退一步，海阔天空;退一步，瞒天过海;冲动是魔鬼，只要心平气和静下心来，相对而笑，一切都能化干戈为玉帛。 9、很多人找女朋友或者男朋友，把学历当作指标之一，既希望对方能够给他/她伴侣的温暖与浪漫，又希望他/她知识丰富、学历相当或更高，在事业上能蒸蒸日上;我想说，你找的是伴侣，不是合作伙伴，更不是同事，生活就是生活，这个人适合你，即使你是博士他/她斗大字不识一个，那也无所谓，适合就会和谐融洽，人比文凭更重要 10、听着一首歌，反反复复，琢磨不透，自己在想什么?难道真的爱她么?可为什么说不出口呢，爱情就是买卖，看透就好。痴情的人不会有真爱、让这一切随风，吹到天涯海角。不要再让我见到，对你，既然说不出，那就模模糊糊。或许，这样最好，谁都不会太累。 11、一个能从别人的观念来看事情，能了解别人心灵活动的人，永远不必为自己的前途担心。 12、人要想树立自己的威信，就要不断进行自我完善和修养、严于律己。你要求别人怎么样，首先必须自己先做到那样，身教的效果总比言传更为快捷。严于律己能使自己成为一个最可信赖的人。 13、成功的道路上，肯定会有失败;对于失败，我们要正确地看待和对待，不怕失败者，则必成功;怕失败者，则一无是处，会更失败。 14、选几个自认为能靠得住的人组成良好、稳固、有力的人际关系的核心。这首选的几个人可以包括自己的朋友、家庭成员和那些在你职业生涯中彼此联系紧密的人。他们构成你的影响力内圈，因为他们能让你发挥所长，而且彼此都希望对方成功。 15、我们现在做的工作，也许过于平淡，也许鸡毛蒜皮。但这就是工作，是生活，是成就人事的不可缺少的基础。对于敬业者来说，凡事无小事，简单不等于容易。 15 16、亲情是一种深度，友情是一种广度，而爱情是一种纯度。亲情是没有条件、不求回报的阳光沐浴，友情是浩荡巨大、可以随时安然栖息的堤岸;而爱情则是神秘无边、可以使歌至到忘情泪至潇洒的心灵照射。人生一世，亲情、友情、爱情;三者缺一，已为遗憾，三者缺二，实为可怜;三者皆缺，活而如亡。 17、如果你心中有阳光，就不会恐惧前方的坎坷;如果你心中有勇气，就不会畏缩不前;无论前方风多大，雨多大，闯过去就是一片海阔天空!孩子别忧伤，生命的美丽就是坚强的走过坎坷! 18、好心没有错，但也要分清是非，不分原则的善良，是“愚善”，就像东郭先生一样。因此，在没有搞清一件事是否值得做之前，要敢于说“不”，不要被他人利用，更不要一不小心成为他人的替罪羊。 19、其实路并没有错，错的是选择，爱并没有错，错的是缘分，所以无论何地，一路的风景总是有限的，终究会有美好的。生命不是一场赛跑，而是一次旅行。 20、什么是嫁得好?嫁得好并不是嫁富豪，而是嫁给一个能给你安全感的男人。住在别墅里天天流泪的，你进的不是天堂而是地狱。真正嫁得好的女人，是住在单元房里却被老公哄的像只傻鸟，爱你一时，宠你一世，骗你一辈子!其实日子过得好，真的不是有多少钱，而是无忧无虑无烦恼。 21、想取得成功，不仅要吃“苦中苦”，也要相关条件的配合支持，那些光知道吃苦的人，那些吃了不值得吃的苦的人，那些把吃苦当成解决一切问题法宝的人，恐怕只能继续在“苦中苦”的怪圈里徘徊。 22、人往往是失去之后才懂得珍惜，可是为时已晚，即使是哭干眼泪也换不回曾经的拥有。多少人都是这样的感叹:拥有时不知道珍惜，失去时已无可挽回。 23、从不犯错的孩子长大后要么成为庸才，要么早晚要犯大错。因此，我们要适度降低对孩子的期望与要求，鼓励他们真实地面对自己的缺点和错误，鼓励他们在尝试中不怕犯错误，注重过程的体验和收获，摘掉“好孩子”的面具。 24、成功不是将来才有的，而是从决定去做的那一刻起，持续累积而成。 25、人生的最大遗憾莫过于错误地坚持了不该坚持的东西，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的东 16 西，每一个人都有自己的理想，都有那个期望达到的目标，或许有这么一天我恩男狗狗成为一名教师，或许有那么一天我能实现自己的理想，达到自己的目标!生活还在继续!不要忘记微笑的对待每一天，不要忘记珍惜余下的每一天! 26、要始终保持敬畏之心。对时光，对美，对痛楚。仿佛我们的活，也只是一棵春天中洁白花树的简单生涯。不管是竭力盛放，还是静默颓败，都如此甘愿和珍重。 27、我们缺少的不是机遇，而是对机遇的把握;我们缺欠的不是财富，而是创造财富的本领;我们缺乏的不是知识，而是学而不厌的态度;我们缺少的不是理想，而是身体力行的实践。 28、只有一条路不能选择——那就是放弃的路;只有一条路不能拒绝——那就是成长的路。 29、积极的人在每一次忧患中都看到一个机会，而消极的人则在每个机会都看到某种忧患。莫找借口失败，只找理由成功。 30、能够刚正批评、指责我们缺点和错误的人是我们难得的诤友，善意的批评就像是一壶美酒，当我们开怀陶醉在这种朋友同事间畅饮的世界里，批评的因子仿佛蕴藏在每个直观的感觉细胞中。 31、没有人愿意和总是虚伪、圆滑的人打交道，但是一味的诚实，却也容易伤害人。所以，生意人讲究的是大诚实，即在适当的时候，对适当人，说适当的话。如果坦率无忌是一种伤害，那么，请选择机智的“谎言”。 32、只要你有能力去做的事就一定要去做，不要给自己留下任何遗憾，人生最重要的不是所站的位置，而是所朝的方向。路就在你脚下，只要走，就能到达远方。 33、做对的事情比把事情做对重要。 34、生命的奖赏远在旅途终点，而非起点附近。我不知道要走多少步才能达到目标，踏上第一千步的时候，仍然可能遭到失败。但我不会因此放弃，我会坚持不懈，直至成功! 35、以前喜欢一个人，可以任由招之即来，挥之即去。现在喜欢一个人，仍可以招之即来，但不再接受挥之即去。因为我现在知道，我很好，所以你爱我，也只有一次机会。 17 36、水的心是平静的，水的心是轻灵的，你看，水，一平如镜，云月其中，怡然自乐。水，怀着平静而轻灵的心，缓和的一淌而去，遇一些阻隔且轻轻的绕过，何必那么多计较，心平而轻流自畅;如一路顺直，那更好了，我也可以尽情的奔流，一望千里，波涛澎湃，我也会挥洒我的潇洒，我的纵情。 37、日子不动声色奴役我们疲于奔命，而我们还要为之稽首敛眉。 38、不要等待机会，而要创造机会。 39、没有一种不通过蔑视、忍受和奋斗就可以征服的命运。 40、夫事未有不生于微而成于着，圣人之虑远，故能谨其微而治之，众人之识近，故必待其着而后救之;治其微则用力寡而功多，就其着则竭力而不能及也。人见识短浅，所以必等弊端闹大才来设法挽救。 41、人性最可怜的就是:我们总是梦想着天边的一座奇妙的玫瑰园，而不去欣赏今天就开在我们窗口的玫瑰。 42、古人说:“少成若天性，习惯如自然。”坏习惯是我们打不开的心锁;坏习惯是我们转不过的弯;坏习惯是我们看不见的障碍„„好习惯要保持，坏习惯要改正，永远别让坏习惯左右我们的未来。 18