郴州2015年中考英语试题-答案

郴州2015年中考英语试题-答案 2015年郴州市初中毕业学业考试 试卷 云南省高中会考试卷哪里下载南京英语小升初试卷下载电路下试卷下载上海试卷下载口算试卷下载 英 语 (试题卷) 本试卷共8页，分四个部分，76小题，时量90分钟，满分120分。 ?. 听力技能(三个部分，共20小题，计20分) 第一节 听音选图 根据你所听到的对话 内容 财务内部控制制度的内容财务内部控制制度的内容人员招聘与配置的内容项目成本控制的内容消防安全演练内容 ，选择相应的图画。听每段对话前，你将有时间阅读各个小题，每小题5秒钟;听完后，各小题将给出5秒钟的作答时间。(共4小题，计4分) 1. 第二节 对话理解 听下面的对话，从题中所给的A、B、C三个选项中选出最佳答案。听每段对话前，你将有时间阅读各个小题，每小题5秒钟;听完后，各小题将给出5秒钟的作答时间。(共11小题，计11分) 听下面的对话，回答5,6小题。 5. How’s the weather in Harbin? A. Raining. B. Sunny. C. Snowing. 6. What are people wearing? A. Hats and sweaters. B. Coats and jeans. C. Ties and suits. 听下面的对话，回答7,9小题。 7. Where will Helen spend her summer vacation? A. In Sydney. B. In Moscow. C. In Shanghai. 8. How long will Jack stay at New York? A. For a week. B. For a month. C. For a year. 9. Who will Jack go with? A. His uncle. B. His daughter. C. His cousin. 听下面的对话，回答10,12小题。 10. When did Kate get the model plane? A. In 2006. B. In 2008. C. In 2010. 11. Why is Kate selling the model plane? A. Because it’s old. B. Because it’s broken. C. Because she doesn’t play it anymore. 12. How much is the model plane? A. 20 cents. B. 45 cents. C. 65 cents. 听下面的对话，回答13,15小题。 13. What are Bill’s favorite subjects? A. English and history. B. Math and chemistry. C. Geography and science. 14. Who’s Bill’s English teacher? A. Ms. Miller. B. Ms. Clark. C. Ms. Green. 15. What does Bill think of history? A. Difficult. B. Easy. C. Interesting. 第三节 笔录要点 根据你所听到的内容，写出下面 表格 关于规范使用各类表格的通知入职表格免费下载关于主播时间做一个表格详细英语字母大小写表格下载简历表格模板下载 中所缺的单词，每空仅填一词。 听材料前，你将有时间阅读各个小题，每小题5秒钟;听完后，各小题将给出15秒钟的作 答时间。(共5小题，计5分) ?. 知识运用(两个部分，共20小题，计20分) 第一节 单项填空 从 A、B、C三个选项中选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项。(共10小 题，计10分) 21. — Do you like _________color of this coat? — Yes, I do. It looks nice. A. a B. an C. the 22. —_________is coming. What can I get for my mother? — What about a scarf? A. Women’s Day B. Woman’s Day C. Womens’ Day 23. —The book Journey to the West is very popular. — Yeah, more than_________ students in our school bought it. A. three hundred B. three hundreds C. hundred of 24. — Work hard, _________ you’ll pass the exam. — OK. I’ll try my best. A. or B. and C. but 25. — Is there_________ in today’s newspaper? — Yes. A terrible accident happened in Hubei. A. special something B. anything special C. something special 26. — What would you like, coffee or tea? — Either________ OK. I don’t mind. A. is B. are C. was 27. — John, I called you yesterday morning, but nobody answered the phone. — Oh, I _________basketball at that time. A. play B. playing C. was playing 28. Don’t forget_________ it to me when you finish reading the book. A. to bring B. bringing C. bring 29. I will send you an e-mail as soon as I_________ in London. A. arrived B. arrive C. will arrive 30. _________ dangerous it is for a child to swim alone in a river! A. What B. What a C. How 第二节 完形填空 通读下面的短文，掌握其大意，然后从各题所给的A、B、C三个选 项中选出一个最佳答案。(共10小题，计10分) One rainy morning, my phone woke me up. It was a phone call from a 31 driver who had my friend’s mobile phone. 32 , my friend had left it in the taxi the night before. A 33 morning for taxi drivers in this big city is a very busy time. He asked me where he could meet me to give me the mobile phone. I told him the street where I lived. Then I quickly34 and got dressed in order to meet 35 on the corner. My friend had only recently moved to this city. So his mobile phone was very 36 to him. When the taxi driver arrived, I thanked him and praised him 37 having such a kind and beautiful heart. I asked him for his name, 38 my friend himself could thank him. He said my praises and 39 were all that he needed. Then he drove off. I told my friend how I had received his 40 . Hearing this, he was thankful and said kindness was really everywhere in this world. 31. A. bus B. taxi C. car 32. A. Clearly B. Hardly C. Luckily 33. A. sunny B. rainy C. windy 34. A. gave up B. stayed up C. got up 35. A. him B. her C. me 36. A. important B. exciting C. difficult 37. A. on B. to C. for 38. A. ever since B. so that C. even though 39. A. thanks B. wishes C. suggestions 40. A. ID card B. birthday gift C. mobile phone III. 阅读技能 (四个部分，共25小题，计45分) 第一节 阅读判断 阅读短文，判断下列句子是否符合短文内容。 符合的写“T”，不符合的写“F”。(共5小题，计5分) What are most 14-year-old boys doing? Going to school, playing sports with friends and doing their homework. But life is much more colorful for the young TFBOYS members. TFBOYS is a singers’ group started in 2013. Its name is The Fighting Boys. It has three members, Wang Junkai, WangYuan and Yi Yangqianxi. Wang Junkai, the group leader, is 15 years old. The other two boys are both 14 years old. The three young singers are so excellent that they show themselves to thousands of people. They have made three albums (相册) and won two singing awards (奖). Now the three boys are among the most popular teenage stars in the country. Many people are interested in TFBOYS. After all, its members are still junior school students. During the weekdays they study at school with their classmates. On weekends and holidays they have singing classes, dancing classes and other trainings. In fans`eyes, the group has a healthy and friendly image (形象). Most of their fans are also teenagers. “We are of similar age,” teens say, “They feel like friends to us and we love their songs!” 41. TFBOYS is a singers’ group. 42. Wang Junkai is the youngest of the three boys. 43. TFBOYS has made thirteen albums and won twelve singing awards. 44. TFBOYS have singing classes, dancing classes and other trainings in their spare time.45. Many teenagers love TFBOYS and their songs. 第二节 阅读选择 (共10小题，计20分) A 阅读下面的短文，从每题所给的A、B、C 三个选项中，选出最佳选项回答问题或完成 句子。(共5 小题，计10 分) There was once a king who had a great palace with a wonderful garden. In the garden, there lived all kinds of animals. All of them enjoyed living there. There was only one thing in the garden that the king hated: an old tree in the center of the garden. It was so old and dry. This made the king so angry that he finally asked some people to cut it down and turned the place into a swimming pool. However, after the tree was cut down, the animals left the garden. Without the animals, the garden was not so beautiful as before. The king was sad, but he didn’t know what had happened. A young man went to the king, and said he could explain what had happened. “This was because you cut the old tree down,” said the young man. “There were thousands of moths (飞 蛾)which lived in the tree. Birds needed the moths to eat and then they produced wastes for plants to grow. The plants then attracted many other animals to your garden. So your garden became very beautiful. But as you cut the tree down, the animals had to leave.” “Excellent!” said the king, “I’ll make you rich and you will try to make my garden beautiful again.” “I’m afraid it will take many years to finish. It will take many years for the natural balance(生态平衡) to get back again,” said the young man. The king was sad, but all he could do was just to wait. 46. Why did the king cut down the old tree? A. Because he hated the old and dry tree. B. Because he wanted to plant a young tree there. C. Because he didn’t want moths to live in the tree. 47. What was the result after the tree was cut down? A. The garden was more beautiful than before. B. The animals left the garden. C. The king was very happy. 48. The underlined word “attracted” in Paragraph 3 probably means “ ” in Chinese. A. 驱赶 B. 利用 C. 吸引 49. If the young man made the garden beautiful again, the king would . A. be very angry B. make him rich C. order him to leave 50. The story tells us that . A. it will take many years for the natural balance to get back again B. it’s easy for us to keep the balance of nature C. old trees should be cut down B 阅读下列图表，从每题所给的A、B、C三个选项中，选出最佳选项回答问题或完成句 子。(共5小题，计10分) 阅读下面的图表，完成51,52小题。 51. Tony is 13 years old. How many pills should he take each day? A. 3 pills. B. 6 pills. C. 9 pills. 52. The medicine should be kept in . A. a cool and dry place B. any place C. hot water 阅读下面的图表，完成53,55小题。 53. Till now, Fantastic Zoo has a history of . A. abut 10 years B. abut 30 years C. abut 40 years 54. If you take the “3-Day Beautiful Chenzhou Tour”, you can . A. enjoy the city life B. go to the zoo C. eat traditional local food 55. Which sentence is TRUE according to the ads (广告)? A. There are more than 500 kinds of animals in Fantastic Zoo. B. If you take the “3-Day Beautiful Chenzhou Tour”, you can call 800-680-4526. C. Mrs. Green and her two friends need to pay over 500 dollars for the “3-Day Beautiful Chenzhou Tour”. 第三节 摘录要点 阅读下面的材料，然后在表格中完成内容摘要，每空不超过三个单 词。(共5小题，计10分) Let`s have a look at some different kinds of entertainment (娱乐). Watching television is one. There are different kinds of programs on TV. Change the channels (频道) and you can see everything on TV, from news, to music, to movies. Going to the cinema is another. Once a week or twice a month, it is good entertainment, if you like watching movies. You make a plan, go out, watch a movie and eat out! It’s more interesting than sitting on the sofa and changing channels. Surfing the Internet is another! You can talk with friends and play games. You can use it todo work and study. You can find everything you like on the Internet. Books are still man’s best friend. Reading a book is the best way to get calm. A good book will take you to a new life. Now many people don’t like this entertainment, but you should try it, if you are bored with others. 第四节 回答问题 阅读短文，然后根据短文内容简要回答问题。(共5小题，计10 分) On September 19, Alibaba went public (上市) on the New York Shock Exchange. It shows that Ma Yun has done his business successfully. A short Chinese man seems to be the tallest man in the world right now. Ma used to be an English teacher. So far, he has become the richest man on the Chinese mainland. Ma was born in Hangzhou and grew up as a happy kid. At the age of twelve, he found that English was very interesting. Every morning he got up at 5 a.m., and then ran to a hotel near the West Lake where he could communicate with foreign tourists in English. He did it for nine years. The experience made him become a fantastic English speaker and also opened his eyes to the wide world. In a 1995 trip to the US, Ma was shown to the Internet for the first time. Seeing the chance, Ma returned to China and set up a website without knowing much about computers. Four years later, Ma set up Alibaba in Hangzhou. People called him “Crazy Jack Ma”. But fifteen years later, Alibaba has developed into the world’s largest e-commerce (电子商务) company.61. What does Ma Yun look like? 62. What did Ma Yun use to be? 63. Where was Ma Yun born? 64. Was Ma Yun shown to the Internet for the first time in 1995? 65. When did Ma Yun set up Alibaba in Hangzhou? IV. 写作技能(三个部分，共11小题，计35分) 第一节 完成对话 通读下面的对话，然后根据上下文补全对话。(共5小题，计10分) A: Excuse me. Can you tell me where I can buy some stamps? B: Sure. You can go to the post office. A: (66) ? B: Go down this street. It’s on the left next to a library. A: (67) ? B: Yes. It’s a little far from here. You’d better take a bus. A: (68) ? B: No. 5 bus. A: (69) ? B: It takes about twenty minutes. A: Thank you. B: (70) . 第二节 英汉互译 阅读下面的短文，将划线部分的句子译成汉语或英语。(共5小题， 计10分) Beijing is the capital of China. It is an excellent city to visit. There are many places of interest, such as the Palace Museum, the Summer Palace and the Great Wall. (71) 你曾经去过长 城吗,It is one of the greatest wonders (奇迹) in the world. Also, the food in Beijing is delicious, especially Beijing Duck. Most large cities have zoos. But Beijing has a zoo where you can go at night. (72) It seems strange to go to a zoo when it is dark. However, if you go to see lions, tigers or foxes during the daytime, they’ll probably be asleep. (73) A lot of animals only wake up at night. So this is the best time to watch the animals. One great thing about Beijing is that there are many people coming from different countries. They speak different languages. (74) 你能学到很多。 I like Beijing very much. (75) It is my dream to go there one day. 71. 72. 73. 74. 75. 第三节 情境作文(计15分) 为了践行社会主义核心价值观，你校学生会决定举办以“文明礼仪伴我行”为主题的英 语征文比赛，请你根据以下的要点提示及要求，写一篇英语短文参赛。 要点提示:1. 尊敬(respect)父母，帮助他们做家务; 2. 对人有礼貌，诚实友好，帮助他人; 3. 不在公共场所大声讲话，不乱扔垃圾; 4. 节约粮食，节约用水; 要求:1. 短文须包含要点提示中的所有信息(不要逐字翻译)，并在此基础上适当发挥; 2. 80词左右(短文开头与结尾已给出，不计入总词数); 3. 文章中不得出现真实的人名、校名和地名。 As a middle school student, we should have good manners. In a word, good manners can make a difference and lead to a better future. 2015年郴州市初中毕业学业考试试卷 英语听力测试材料、参考答案及评分 标准 excel标准偏差excel标准偏差函数exl标准差函数国标检验抽样标准表免费下载红头文件格式标准下载 一、听力测试材料 2015年郴州市初中毕业学业考试英语听力测试现在开始。 注意:做听力试题时，请先在试题卷上作答。听力部分结束前，你将有两分钟的时间将第1至第15小题的答案转涂到答题卡上，将第16至第20小题的答案转写到答题卡上。听力材料以中速朗读两遍。 第一节 听音选图 根据你所听到的对话内容，选择相应的图画。听每段对话前，你将有时间阅读各个小题，每小题5秒钟;听完后，各小题将给出5秒钟的作答时间。1. W: Jack, what time do you usually get up? M: I usually get up at six o’clock. 2. W: How did you get to school today? M: Carl’s dad gave me a lift in his car. 3. W: When was the computer invented? M: I think it was invented in 1971. 4. W: Did you milk a cow on the farm yesterday? M: No, I rode a horse. It was great. 第二节 对话理解 听下面的对话，从题中所给的A、B、C三个选项中选出最佳答案。听每段对话前，你将有时间阅读各个小题，每小题5秒钟;听完后，各小题将给出5秒钟的作答时间。 听下面的对话，回答5,6小题。 M: How’s the weather in Harbin? W: It’s snowing right now. M: What are people doing? W: Some boys are skating and some girls are making a snowman. They are all wearing hats and sweaters. 听下面的对话，回答7,9小题。 M: The summer vacation is coming. What’s your plan, Helen? W: Well, I’m going to Shanghai for summer camp. How about you, Jack? M: I will go to New York and I will stay there for a month. W: Oh, really? Will you go to Disneyland? M: Yes, I will. W: Will you go with anyone? M: Yes. I’ll go with my uncle. W: Have a good time! M: You, too. 听下面的对话，回答10,12小题。 W: I have too many great things at this yard sale, Jeff. M: Great! Kate, this is your old model plane, isn’t it? W: Yes, I got it from my aunt in 2006. M: It looks nice. Why are you selling it? W: Because I don’t play it anymore. M: How much is it? W: You can have it for at least 20 cents. M: OK. I’ll get it. W: Thank you. 听下面的对话，回答13,15小题。 W: Hi, Bill. How’s your day? M: It’s great. I like Monday because I have English and history. They’re my favorite subjects.W: Who’s your English teacher? M: Ms. Clark. She’s like a mother to us. We all like her. W: That’s great! Then why do you like history? M: Oh, I think history is interesting. 第三节 笔录要点 根据你所听到的内容，写出下面表格中所缺的单词，每空仅填一词。 听材料前，你将有时间阅读各个小题，每小题5秒钟;听完后，各小题将给出15秒钟的作 答时间。 Hello, everyone. I am Paul. There are four people in my family: my father, my mother, mysister and I. My father is a doctor. He’s reading a newspaper. He likes basketball. Oh, that’s mymother. She is a teacher. She’s making dinner in the kitchen now. She likes movies. My sister is areporter. She’s watching the news in the living room. She likes planting flowers. What do I do?I’m a student at No. 1 Middle School. I’m listening to a CD. I like music. I want to be a singerwhen I grow up. On Sundays, we always go for a walk together. I love my family very much. 听力材料朗读完毕，请同学们继续做下面的试题，监考老师请关机。 二、 参考答案 1,5 ABCBC 6,10 ACBAA 11,15 CAABC 16. doctor 17. making 18. sister 19. flowers 20. music 21,25 CAABB 26,30 ACABC 31,35 BABCA 36,40 ACBAC 41,45 TFFTT 46,50 ABCBA 51,55 BAACB 56. everything 57. changing channels 58. play games 回答 and play games不扣分) 59. Reading books / Reading a book 60. get calm 61. He is short. / Short. 62. He used to be an English teacher. / An English teacher. / A teacher. 63. He was born in Hangzhou. / In Hangzhou. (回答Hangzhou.计1分) 64. Yes (, he was). 65. He set it up in 1999. / In 1999. (回答1999.计1分;Four years later.计0分) 66. Where is the post office / Could you tell me where the post office is / How can I get to the post office / How to get there / … 67. Is it far (from here) [回答 Is it a little far (from here)不扣分] 68. Which bus shall I take / Which bus can I take / Which bus can take me there /... (回答Which bus计1分) 69. How long does it take (to get there) 70. You’re welcome / That’s all right / No problem / … 71. Have you ever been to the Great Wall? 72. 当天黑时去动物园好像很奇怪。 73. 许多动物只在晚上醒来。 74. You can learn a lot. / You can learn a lot of things. 75. 有一天去那里/北京是我的梦想。 One possible version: As a middle school student, we should have good manners. First, we should respect ourparents and help them do some housework. Second, we should be polite and honest. Also, it’salways good to be kind and friendly. We should try our best to help the people in need. Third,we’d better not talk loudly in public. Don’t throw rubbish everywhere. It’s our duty to keep ourcity clean and beautiful. Fourth, we are supposed to save food and water. Lastly, it’s importantand necessary for us to help protect the environment. In a word, good manners can make a difference and lead to a better future. 三、评分标准 1. 第1,45小题，每小题1分。 英语试题 第3页(共8页) 2. 第46,75小题，每小题2分。情境作文15分。 3. 第56,75小题除参考答案之外可接受的或关键信息词正确的答案均可酌情给分,不影响表意的大小写和标点错误可不扣分。 4. 作文评分细则: 1)评分时根据内容和语言确定档次给分，主要考虑要点、词汇和语法结构的准确性及上下文的连贯。 2)拼写和标点符号是语言准确性的一个方面，评分时应根据对表达的影响程度给予考虑。(单词拼写错误每个扣0.25分，同一错误不重复扣分。不影响表意的拼写和标点错误可不扣分。) 3)词数太少(不够60词)的或书写不 规范 编程规范下载gsp规范下载钢格栅规范下载警徽规范下载建设厅规范下载 的应酌情扣1,2分(但不倒扣分)。 4)以下情况均不给分:书写极差以至严重影响表达;所写内容与文章无关。 5)作文要点给分细则: 要 点 分 值 尊敬父母，帮助他们做家务 3分 对人有礼貌，诚实友好，帮助他人 3分 不在公共场所大声讲话，不乱扔垃圾 3分 节约粮食，节约用水 3分 拓 展 2分 书 写 1分 说明:短文须包含要点提示中的所有信息(不要逐字翻译)，并在此基础上适当发挥。 按五个档次给分: A档(13,15分):很好地完成了规定的写作任务。包含所有内容要点，结构完整，语句流畅，意思清楚、连贯。使用较为丰富的语法结构和词汇，语法和词汇错误极少，格式正 确，书写规范。 B档(10,12分):较好地完成了规定的写作任务。基本上包含所有内容要点，结构较为完整，语句完整，意思清楚。语法结构和词汇错误较少，格式基本正确，书写较为规范。 C档(7,9分):基本上完成了规定的写作任务。包含主要内容要点，结构欠完整，少数语句不通顺，意思基本清楚。语法结构和词汇错误较多，格式基本正确，书写基本规范。 D档(4,6分):未能按要求完成规定的写作任务。只包含少数内容要点，结构不完整，多数语句欠完整，意思不够清楚。语法结构和词汇错误较多，影响理解，格式不够正确，书写欠规范。 E档(0,3分):未能按要求完成规定的写作任务。只写出个别要点，结构不完整，多数语句不完整或意思不明，语法和词汇错误很多，书写不规范。 下面红色字体部分是赠送的散文欣赏摘自网络，不 需要的朋友下载后可以编辑删除～～～谢谢～～～ 可依靠的唯有自己 这是发生在一个普通犹太人家庭里，父亲和儿子的故事: 儿子叫约翰，在他4岁那年，有一天他和姐姐在客厅玩捉迷藏。他们玩得正高兴，父亲抱起小约翰，把他放在沙发椅上面，然后伸出双手做出接的姿势，叫他往下跳。小约翰毫不犹豫地往下跳，在即将抓住父亲的瞬间，父亲缩回了双手，约翰摔到了地板上，他号啕大哭起来。小约翰向坐在沙发上的妈妈求助，妈妈若无其事地坐着，并不去扶他，只是微笑着说: “呵，好坏的爸爸～”父亲站在一边，以嘲弄的眼光望着上当受骗的小约翰。 这便是犹太家庭教子的方法之一，这样做的目的是灌输给孩子一个理念:社会是复杂的，不要轻信他人，唯一可依赖的就是自己。 犹太家庭的孩子都要回答这样一个问题:“假如有一天房子被烧着了，你将带着什么东西逃跑,”如果孩子回答是钱财，母亲会进一步问:“有一种没有形状、没有颜色、没有气味的宝贝，你知道是什么吗,”如果孩子回答不出来，母亲会告诉他:“孩子，你要带走的不是钱财，而是智慧。因为智慧是任何人都抢不走的，你只要活着，智慧就永远跟着你。” 你对爸爸的爱，远远胜过那部车 一个犹太家庭的父亲，存钱存了很久，终于买了一辆自己向往已久的新车。新车开到家后，他珍爱有加，每天都要洗车打蜡。他5岁的儿子见父亲这么爱车，也常常乐此不疲地帮爸爸一起洗车。 有一天，这位父亲开车回到家后，累得一动也不想动。于是他决定破一次例，改天再洗车，尽管自己的爱车因淋了雨，而显得脏乱不堪。 这时，5岁的儿子见父亲这么累，就自告奋勇地要帮爸爸洗车，见他这么小的年纪，就知道体谅自己，心里甚感欣慰，便放手让儿子去洗。 儿子要动手洗车了，却找不到洗车用的毛巾。于是他走进厨房，立刻便想到母亲平时煮菜洗锅时，都是用钢刷使劲刷才刷干净的，所以既然没有毛巾，就用钢刷吧～他拿起钢刷用力地洗起车来，一遍又一遍，像刷锅一样地刷车。 等他洗完之后，听见“哇”的一声，他失声大哭起来，车子怎么都花了,这下可闯大祸了，他急忙跑去找父亲，边哭边说:“爸爸，对不起，爸爸，你来看～”父亲疑惑地跟着儿子走到车旁，他也“哇”的一声，“我的车，我的车～” 这位父亲怒气冲冲地走进房间，气急败坏地跪在地上祷告:“上帝呀，请你告诉我，我该怎么做,那是我新买的车，一个月不到，就变成这样，我该怎么处罚我的孩子,” 他才祷告完，耳边忽然出现一个声音“世人都是看表面，而我却是看内心～”突然间，他彻悟了。 他走出房门，儿子正害怕地流着泪，动也不敢动。 父亲走上前去，把孩子紧紧地拥在怀里，亲切地说:“谢谢你帮爸爸洗车，爸爸对你的爱，远远胜过对那部车子。” 凡事要透过表面去看本质，当家人或朋友无意间做错了某件事时，我们要理智对待，不要只看事情的表面，而忽略他们内心真实的想法。学会用爱心去包容爱心，家会让你感觉自己的周围，时时洋溢温暖的阳光。 小饭馆的生意很好，因为物美价廉，因为他的谦和和妻子的热情。每天早晨，三四点钟他就早早起来去采购，直到天亮才把所需要的蔬菜、鲜肉拉回家。没有雇人手，两个人忙得像陀螺。常常，因为缺乏睡眠，他的眼睛红红的。 不久，一个推着三轮车的老人来到他门前。她驼背，走路一跛一跛的，用手比划着，想为他提供蔬菜和鲜肉，绝对新鲜，价格还便宜。老人是个哑巴，脸上满是灰尘，额角和眼边的几块疤痕让她看上去面目丑陋。妻子不同意，老人的样子，看上去实在不舒服。可他却不顾妻子的反对，答应下来。不知怎的，眼前的老人让他突然想起了母亲。 老人很讲信用，每次应他要求运来的蔬菜果然都是新鲜的。于是，每天早晨六点钟，满满一三轮车的菜准时送到他的饭馆门前。他偶尔也请老人吃碗面，老人吃得很慢，很享受的样子。他心里酸酸的，对老人说，她每天都可以在这儿吃碗面。老人笑了，一跛一跛地走过来。他看着她，不知怎的，又想起了母亲，突然有一种想哭的冲动。 一晃，两年又过去了，他的饭馆成了酒楼，他也有了一笔数目可观的积蓄，买了房子。可为他送菜的，依旧是那个老人。 又过了半个月，突然有一天，他在门前等了很久，却一直等不到老人。时间已经过了 一个小时，老人还没有来。他没有她的联系方式，无奈，只好让工人去买菜。两小时后，工人拉回了菜，仔细看看，他心里有了疙瘩，这车菜远远比不上老人送的莱。老人送来的菜全经过精心挑选，几乎没有干叶子，棵棵都清爽。 只是，从那天后，老人再未出现。 春节就要到了，他包着饺子，突然对妻子说想给老人送去一碗，顺便看看她发生了什么事。怎么一个星期都没有送菜,这可是从没有过的事。妻子点头。 煮了饺子，他拎着，反复打听一个跛脚的送菜老人，终于在离他酒楼两个街道的胡同里，打听到她了。 他敲了半天门，无人应答。门虚掩着，他顺手推开。昏暗狭小的屋子里，老人在床上躺着，骨瘦如柴。老人看到他，诧异地睁大眼，想坐起来，却无能为力。他把饺子放到床边，问老人是不是病了。老人张张嘴，想说什么，却没说出来。他坐下来，打量这间小屋子，突然，墙上的几张照片让他吃惊地张大嘴巴。竟然是他和妈妈的合影～他5岁时，10岁时，17岁时……墙角，一只用旧布包着的包袱，包袱皮上，绣着一朵梅花。他转过头，呆呆地看着老人，问她是谁。老人怔怔地，突然脱口而出:儿啊。 他彻底惊呆了～眼前的老人，不是哑巴,为他送了两年菜的老人，是他的母亲, 那沙哑的声音分明如此熟悉，不是他母亲又能是谁,他呆愣愣地，突然上前，一把抱住母亲，号啕痛哭，母子俩的眼泪沾到了一起。 不知哭了多久，他先抬起头，哽咽着说看到了母亲的坟，以为她去世了，所以才离开家。母亲擦擦眼泪，说是她让邻居这么做的。她做工的爆竹厂发生爆炸，她侥幸活下来，却毁了容，瘸了腿。看看自己的模样，想想儿子进过监狱，家里又穷，以后他一定连媳妇都娶不上。为了不拖累他，她想出了这个主意，说自己去世，让他远走他乡，在异地生根，娶妻生子。得知他离开了家乡，她回到村子。辗转打听，才知道他来到了这个城市。她以捡破烂为生，寻找他四年，终于在这家小饭馆里找到他。她欣喜若狂，看着儿子忙碌，她又感到心痛。为了每天见到儿子，帮他减轻负担，她开始替他买菜，一买就是两年。可现在，她的腿脚不利索，下不了床了，所以，再不能为他送菜。 这种信任和理解真的很重要。 这个故事对于众多家长来说有很强的的启迪和警示作用:“你到底爱的是孩子，还是孩子努力的结果,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”亦或是“你到底是爱自己的孩子，还是爱那个你心目中的孩子,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”，往往，在和孩子互动过程中，我们关注自己的感受，关注孩子是否改错，关注孩子是否优秀，而我们忽略了关注孩子本身，这些都是打着爱的旗号伤害着孩子，但我们往往认为这就是爱。请牢记，孩子本身最重要～ 让孩子去开辟自己的天空 《一个犹太人的家庭教育》讲的是一个伟大的犹太母亲把三个孩子培养成才的理念和方法。这位母亲生在上海，父亲是犹太人，在她12岁那年去世了，随后母亲也离她而去，她成了孤儿。长大后在上海铜厂做女工，结婚后生下三个孩子，但不久后丈夫又离她而去了。为了逃避痛苦，她成为中以建交后第一批回到以色列的犹太后裔。 为了生存，也为了三个孩子能早日回到以色列，她先发奋学习希伯来语，然后，在路边摆了个小摊卖春卷。以色列的官方货币是谢克尔，一谢克尔兑换人民币2块钱，更小的币值是雅戈洛，一谢克尔等于100雅戈洛。她的春卷小摊每天只能赚到十来个谢克尔…… 1993年，她接回了三个孩子，大儿子14岁，二儿子13岁，小女儿11岁。开始她一直秉承再苦不能苦孩子的原则，依旧做着合格的中国式妈妈。把孩子送去学校读书，她卖春卷，孩子放学，她就停止营业，在小炉子上面给他们做馄饨或者面条。这一幕被邻居看到了，就来训斥大儿子:“你已经是大孩子了，你应该学会去帮助你的母亲，而不是看着你母亲忙碌，自己就像废物一样。”然后转过头训斥母亲:“不要把那种落后的中国式教育带到以色列来……” 大儿子和她都很难受，但他们都在慢慢地改变，大儿子不但学会了做春卷，还把春卷带到学校卖，每天，三个小孩子能赚到10个谢克尔，回家交给母亲。母亲觉得很心酸，让他们小小年纪就担起生活的担子，但犹太人不这么认为，在犹太家庭里，孩子们没有免费的食物和照顾，任何东西都是有价格的，每个孩子都必须学会赚钱，才能获得自己需要的一切。 于是妈妈不再提供免费的餐食和服务，同时也给他们赚钱的机会，以每个春卷30雅戈洛的价钱批发给他们，带到学校后，可自行加价出售，利润部分自由支配。 三个孩子卖春卷的方式竟然截然不同。小女儿最老实，按老价钱50雅戈洛一个零售;二儿子则以40雅戈洛的价钱批发给学校餐厅，每天让他送100个春卷;大儿子则举办了一个“带你走进中国”的讲座，讲座的噱头就在于可以免费品尝美味的中国春卷，但需要买入场券，每人10雅戈洛，结果收入1500雅戈洛。 随后他们琢磨出了更多更新颖的赚钱方法，他们很努力地去学习和思考，学业并没有受到任何影响。 同样作为父母，是不是应该引起我们的反思,我们每天一睁开眼睛就为了孩子忙活，做饭、洗衣服、接送、辅导作业，然后才是做自己的事情，每天忙的团团转，累得筋疲力尽。一发牢骚，孩子还会心生厌烦，根本不理解我的付出。再回头看看，每一位中国母亲不都是这样吗,这样我们就很伟大吗,我们付出了很多，却造就了一个又一个“小皇帝”、“小公主”…… 我们希望孩子成才，却又过度的保护他们，使得孩子变得无能无法自立;过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情;过多的干涉，让孩子多了很多无奈;过多的指责，让孩子变得不知所措，找不到前进的方向…… 想要为孩子创造一个无忧无虑，快乐成长的天空，但却发现自己完完全全的占据了创造者的位置，其实，这个位置也要有一部分让孩子承担。现在的照顾，也许会暂时保护着他们，但是他们总有一天会长大，会在长大后遇到许许多多的困难，那个时候，我们是如何也帮不了他们的……也许，让孩子过早的面对金钱面对名利面对社会，会有不舍和心疼，但他们总有一天要面对，总有一天要承担。 我们为何不像那位犹太母亲那样，放开手，让孩子自己去开辟属于他们自己的天空呢,