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4 Keys To A Better Marriage
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Marriage is a wonderful blessing, but it...
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4 Keys To A Better Marriage
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life,money,resentment,share
Marriage is a wonderful blessing, but it can be very difficult at times. In this article,
Sahmpower hopes to address four areas of a marriage that can start you well on your way to a
happier, healthier relationship with your spouse.
1. Communication:
It is no big secret to most people that communication is the number one issue in a marriage.
In the typical marriage, it is misunderstanding each other that causes most of the problem
rather than an actual issue. Often we make assumptions of what our partner wants or thinks
that is way off base, but we base our response or emotions on this assumption. For women, we
might assume that our husband's seeming disinterest means cheating, when it may just be that
he is overworked and stressed out. For men, they may assume their wife's nagging means they
aren't performing well as a husband, when all she really wants is him to take out the trash.
We wives often expect our husbands to know what we want, and husbands often avoid making
requests of their spouse or bringing up an issue because they want to avoid conflict at all
costs. It may seem really simplistic to say, but if want something from your partner, tell
them! And be willing to listen if you want to be heard. Wives might be surprised how a husband
will respond if he knows what she wants. Conversely, a husband may be surprised how quickly a
wife will be to meet his requests if he is open enough to tell her. One big mistake couples
make is holding things in and not resolving the little issues until they have built up. This
causes an unnecessary blowup that could have been avoided if dealt with when the problem was
small. And finally, let go of your resentment. If you are holding a grudge against your
spouse, your are sowing a destructive seed in your marriage. You must accept your personal
responsibility in the choices that you and your partner have made together. If you have chosen
to forgive a past wrong, then do so. If you chose marriage rather than living out your dream,
recognize that it was your choice too, so don't resent your spouse for it. Where resentment
will kill your marriage, forgiveness is the anecdote that will heal it.
2. Make Your Marriage a Top Priority:
We are busy people with a lot of responsibilities. We have work, kids, chores, bills,
appointments, practices, and more to take up our time. But where does our marriage fit in? It
is so easy to get caught up in the rat race and neglect our marriage, but there are major
repercussions for doing so. The marriage is the nucleus of the family, and is like an anchor
that holds the home and it's surroundings steady. Many parents tend to put their kids before
their marriage more often than not. It takes a concerted effort from each partner to place the
marriage relationship as a priority in family life. Children benefit greatly from a strong
relationship between their parents. We model to them what marriage is and what it should be
like. If the marriage relationship is not given the effort and attention required, life and
time can erode it until the husband and wife are left with nothing to build or grow on.
3. Revive Your Love Life:
For women, a hectic day with the kids is enough to stifle any interest in a love life. For
men, the same can be said for their harried work week. But even if you are tired, give effort
to facilitate regular love making in your marriage. You will most likely find that although
you didn't feel like it before, you will surely reap the rewards for your efforts. Rejecting
your partner can cause great damage to your marriage, so give a little and get a lot in
return. Make an effort to assure regular lovemaking in your marriage, even if you have to
schedule it. Not only will both of you be more satisfied in your love life, but your
relationship will be much closer too!
4. Share:
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I've heard this statement many times," He has his money, and I have mine". But secret keeping
and separate banking accounts don't have a place in good marriages. If you had siblings when
you were younger, one of the hardest lessons you had to learn was "sharing". When you become
married, you are making a choice to share your life with your spouse. Your life includes all
that you are and all that you have. The Bible says in Matthew 6:21, "Where your treasure is,
there your heart is also" No matter what you believe, this truth applies very much to many
areas of marriage. Money is one of the major issues that couples argue about, and the reason
is that many people place it as a higher priority than nearly anything else. Although tough
financial times can be taxing on any marriage, they will never break a marriage that has
priority with both husband and wife. If you treasure your marriage, your whole heart will be
in it.
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