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(1)Congratulationseveryone,youmadeitAndIdon'tmeantotheendofcollege,ImeantoclassdaybecauseifmemoryservessomeofyourclassmateshadtoomanyscorpionbowlsattheKonglastnightandarewithustodayGiventheweathertheonethingHarvardhasn'tfiguredouthowtocontrolsomeofyourotherclassmatesareatsomeplacewarmwithahotcocoasoyouhavemanyreasonstofeelproudofyourselfasyousitheretodayCongratulationstoyourparentsYouhavespentalotofmoneysoyourchildcansayshewenttoa"smallschool"nearBostonAndthankyoutotheclassof2014forinvitingmetobepartofyourcelebrationItmeansagreatdealtomeandlookingatthelistofpastspeakerswasalittledauntingIcan'tbeasfunnyasAmyPoehlerbutrmgonnabefunnierthanMotherTeresa25yearsagoamannamedDaveIdidnotknowatthetimebutwhowouldonedaybecomemyhusbandwassittingwhereyouaresittingtoday23yearsagoIwassittingwhereyouaresittingtodayDaveandIarebackthisweekendwithouramazingsonanddaughtertocelebratehisreunionandwebothsharethesamesentimentHarvardhasagoodbasketballteamStandinghereintheyardbringsmemoriesfloodingbackformeIarrivedherefromMiamiinthefallof1987withbighopesandevenbiggerhairIwasassignedtoliveinoneofHarvard'shistoricmonumentstogreatarchitectureCanadayMygo-tooutfit,andI'mnotmakingthisup,wasajeanskirtwhitelegwarmersandsneakersandaFloridasweaterbecausemyparentswhowereherewithmethenasthey'reherewithmenowtoldmeeveryonewouldthinkitwasawesomethatIwasfromFloridaAtleastwedidn'thaveInstagramForme,HarvardwasaseriesoffirstsMyfirstwintercoat,weneedn'tneedthoseinMiamiMyfirst10pagepaper,theydidn'tassignthoseinmyhighschoolMyfirstCafterwhichmyproctortoldmethatshewasontheAdmissionsCommitteeandIgotadmittedtoHarvardformypersonalitynotmyacademicpotentialThefirstpersonIevermetfromboardingschoolIthoughtthatwasourreallytroubledkidsThefirstpersonIevermetwhosharesthenamewithawholebuildingorsoImetwhenthefirstclassmateImetwasSarahWigglesworthwhoborenorelationatalltothedormwhichwouldhavebeennicetoknowwiththatveryintimidatingmomentButthenIwentontomeetothersFrancisStrauss,JamesWellsJessicaScieneeCenterBMyfirstlove,myfirstheartbreakthefirsttimeIrealizedthatIlovetolearnandthefirstandverylasttimeIsawanyonereadanythinginLatinWhenIsatinyourseatallthoseyearsagoIknewexactlywhereIwasheaded.IhaditallplannedoutIwasgoingtotheWorldBanktoworkonglobalpovertyThenIwouldgotolawschoolAndIwouldspendmylifeworkinginanonprofitorinagovernmentAtHarvard'scommencementtomorrowasyourdeandescribedeachschoolisgonnastandupandgraduatetogetherthecollege,thelawschool,themedschoolandsoonAtmygraduation,myclasscheeredforthePhDstudentsandthenbooedthebusinessschoolBusinessschoolseemedlikesuchasellout18monthslater,IappliedtobusinessschoolItwasn'tthatIwaswrongaboutwhatIwoulddodecadesaftergraduatingIhaditwrongayearandahalflaterAndevenifIcouldhavepredictedIwouldonedayworkintheprivatesectorInevercouldhavepredictedFacebookbecausetherewasnointernetandMarkZuckerbergwasatelementaryschoolalreadywearinghishoodyNotlockingintoapathtooearlygavemeanopportunitytogointoanewandlifechangingfieldAndforthoseofyouwhothinkIoweeverythingtogoodluckafterCanadayIgotQuadedWhat'sthat?Barron⑵ThereisnostraightpathfromyourseattodaytowhereyouaregoingDon'ttrytodrawthatline.YouwillnotjustgetitwrongYou'llmissbigopportunitiesandImeanbig,liketheInternetCareersarenotladders.ThosedaysarelonggonebutjunglegymsDon'tjustmoveupanddown.Don'tjustlookupLookbackwards,sideways,aroundcornersYourcareerandyourlifewillhavestartsandstopsandzigsandzagsDon'tstressoutaboutthewhitespace,thepathyoucantrybecausethereinlivesboththesurprisesandtheopportunitiesAsyouopenyourselfuptopossibilitythemostimportantthingIcantellyoutodayistoopenyourselfuptohonestytotellingthetruthtoeachothertobeinghonestwithyourselvesandtobeinghonestabouttheworldweliveinIfyouwatchedchildren,youwillimmediatelynoticehowhonesttheyareMyfriendBetsywaspregnantandhersonforthesecondchild,sonSamwas5hewantedtoknowwherethebabywasinherbodySoyesMommy,arethebabiesarmsinyourarms?Andshesaid,nonoSam,baby'sinmytummywholebabyMom,arethebaby'slegsinyourlegs?No,Sam,wholebaby'sinmytummyThenMommy,what'sgrowinginyourbutt?AsadultswearealmostneverdishonestandthatcanbeaverygoodthingWhenIwaspregnantwithourfirstchildIaskedmyhusbandDaveifmybuttwasgettingbigAtfirst,hedidn'tanswerbutIpressedSohesaid,yeah,alittleForyearsmysister-in-lawsaidabouthimwhatpeoplewillnowsayaboutyoufortherestofyourlifewhenyoudosomethingdoneandthatguywenttoHarvardHearingthetruthatdifferenttimesalongthewaywouldhavehelpedmeIwouldnothaveadmittediteasilywhenIsatwhereyousitButwhenIgraduated,IwasmuchmoreworriedaboutmylovelifethanmycareerIthoughtIonlyhadafewyearsverylimitedtimetofindoneofthegoodguysbeforehewasto,orbeforetheywerealltakenorIgottoooldSoImovedtoDC,andmetwithguyandIgotmarriedatthenearlydecrepitageof24ImarriedawonderfulmanbutIhadnobusinessmakingthatkindofcommitmentIdidn'tknowwhoIwasorwhoIwantedtobeMymarriagefellapartwithinayearsomethingthatwasreallyembarrassingandpainfulatthetimeanditdidnothelpthatsomanyfriendscameuptomeandsaidIneverknewthat,neverthoughtthatwasgoingtoworkorIknewyouweren'trightforeachotherNoonehadmanagedtosayanythinglikethattomebeforeI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slikepussyandbossywhileourmalepeersareleadersandresultsfocusedAfrican-Americanwomenhavetoprovethatthey'renotangryLatinosriskbeingbrandedfieryhotheadAgroupofAsian-AmericanwomenandmeninFacebookworepinsonedaythatsaidImayormaynotbegoodenoughYes,Harvardhasawomanpresidentandintwoyears,theUnitedStatesmayhaveawomanpresident⑸ButinordertogetthereHillaryClintonisgonnahavetoovercome2veryrealobstaclesunknownandoftenununderstoodgenderbiasandevenworse,adegreefromYaleYoucanchallengestereotypesthat'ssubtleandobviousAtFacebook,wehavepostersaroundthewalltoinspireusDoneisbetterthanperfectFortunefavorsthebold.Whatwouldyoudoifyouweren'tafraid?MynewfavoritenothingatFacebookissomeoneelse'sproblemIhopeyoufeelthatwayabouttheproblemsyouseeintheworldbecausetheyarenotsomeoneelse'sproblemGenderinequalityharmsmenalongwithwomenRacismhurtsWhitesalongwithMinoritiesAndthelackofequalopportunitykeepsallofusfromfailingourtruepotentialSoasyougraduatetodayIwanttoputsomepressureonyouIwanttoputsomepressureonyoutoacknowledgethehardtruthsnotshyawayfromthemandwhenyouseethemtoaddressthemThefirsttimeIspokeoutaboutwhatitwasliketobeawomanintheworkforcewaslessthanfiveyearsagoThatmeansthatfor18yearsfromwhereyousittowhereIstandmysileneeimpliedthateverythingwasokayYoucandobetterthanIdidAndImeanthatsosincerelyAtthesametimeIwanttotakesomepressureoffyouSittingheretodayyoudon'thavetoknowwhatcareeryouwantorhowtogetthecareeryoumightwantLeaningindoesnotmeanyourpathwillbestraightorsmoothandmostpeoplewhomakegreatcontributionstartwaylaterthanMarkZuckerbergFindajunglegymyouwanttoplayandstartclimbingnotonlywillyoufigureoutwhatyouwanttodoeventuallybutonceyoudo,you'llcrushitLookingatyouallheretodayI'mfilledwithhopeAllofyouwhowereadmittedtoa"smallschool"nearBostoneitherforyouracademicpotentialoryourpersonalityorbothyou'vehadyourfirst,whetherit'sawintercoat,aloveoraCyou'velearnedmoreaboutwhoyouareandwhoyouwanttobeAndmostimportantlyyou'veexperieneedthepowerofcommunityyouknowthatwhileyouareextraordinaryonyourownweareallstrongerandcanbeloudertogetherIknowthatyouwillneverforgetHarvardandHarvardwillneverforgetyouespeciallyduringthenextfundraisingdriveTomorrowyouallbecomepartofalifelongcommunitywhichofferstrulygreatopportunityandthereforecomeswithrealobligationYoucanmaketheworldfairforeveryoneexpecthonestyfromyourselfandeachotherdemandandcreatetrulyequalopportunitynoteventually,butnowAndtomorrowbythewayyougetsomethingMarkZuckerbergdoesnothaveaHarvarddegreeCongratulations,everyone