英语话题讨论

英语话题讨论 自信 the most profound yet simple advice that changed the way I would view myself forever: "You yourself have to think you're great because no one else is going to tell you that you are It means we, ourselves, have to build self-confidence and not depend on, or wait for anyone else's approval.How we see ourselves is more important than how anyone else sees us.If we don't work at loving and accepting ourselves, nothing anyone else thinks matters. ." Here are some Tips on How To Build Self-Confidence Acknowledge Your Uniqueness. Believe in yourself and know that you are one of a kind. In the words of Walt Whitman know: "That you are here--that life exists, and identity That the powerful play goes on, and you will contribute a verse." There is no one else like you on this planet. No one looks like you, has the same talents, experiences or perspective as you do. You are unique and are therefore here to make your unique contribution. If we each focus on what we bring into the world to share, there can be no comparisons, envy or regret. We are here to "contribute a verse". Give it Your Best. When you do the best you can, with the best of what you've got, you can't help but feel good about yourself and that confidence comes through in everything that you do. Persevere. Everybody has setbacks and obstacles to contend with. Don't let them undermine your confidence. Treat them as opportunities to strengthen your resolve and then persevere. Overcome adversity. Overcoming adversity builds and strengthens self-confidence. The greatest songs, works of art and literary pieces have been written by those who have experienced the depths of despair, loss and emptiness and overcame them. Experiencing sadness and loss, and then rising above them, gives rise to hope and triumph. It makes you stretch and become more than you were. Accomplish something. Set goals for yourself and then push yourself to reach them. Self-confidence soars when you know you can do what you put your mind to. It makes you feel unstoppable. Separate Yourself From the Event. You are not what happens to you, nor how you believe others see you. In other words, you are not defined by what happens to you, nor are you defined by how others see you. You are who you choose to be - a person of character, dignity and self-confidence. Confront your fears. There's nothing that destroys self-confidence more than succumbing to fear. Everyone feels fear at various times; we're human, however facing circumstances with courage and poise strengthens character and builds self-confidence. Good looks do not equal self-confidence. Some of the most attractive people in the world are insecure and lack self-confidence. Marilyn Monroe was considered to be one of the sexiest, most beautiful people in the world, yet she lacked a positive self-image. She misguidedly allowed external factors to determine her self worth. Good looks help you feel good about yourself, Overcoming adversity builds and strengthens self-confidence. The greatest songs, works of art and literary pieces have been written by those who have experienced the depths of despair, loss and emptiness and overcame them. Experiencing sadness and loss, and then rising above them, gives rise to hope and triumph. It makes you stretch and become more than you were. Set goals for yourself and then push yourself to reach them. Self-confidence soars when you know you can do what you put your mind to. It makes you feel unstoppable. You are not what happens to you, nor how you believe others see you. In other words, you are not defined by what happens to you, nor are you defined by how others see you. You are who you choose to be - a person of character, dignity and self-confidence. There's nothing that destroys self-confidence more than succumbing to fear. Everyone feels fear at various times; we're human, however facing circumstances with courage and poise strengthens character and builds self-confidence. Some of the most attractive people in the world are insecure and lack self-confidence. Marily but are by no means enough. Learn how to give yourself a pep talk. We all have our down moments, moments of doubt, confusion and uncertainty. When that happens, we have to learn how to restore our self-confidence. One way is to understand that everyone goes through such moments. Another is to remember past successes, visualize the desired outcome, and keep at it. Practice makes perfect. Self-confidence is absolutely essential to achieving success in any endeavor. You acquire it by doing, learning, accomplishing and persisting 情商 EQ is a kind of ability.EQ is a kind of Creation .And EQ is a kind of skill.Now that EQ is a skill so it has rule to obye,and it can be grasped .If only we have more courage ,more chansten and more investment in human relationships,wo can be like the proficient in EQ,can build a loosen surroundings,a contacts for yourself,and a space which can exert yourself better. The investigation indicate that :to a person to be successful or not ,the IQ makes up only 20 per cent ,but the EQ makes up 80 per cent.someone think that :"IQ decides the chioce of the work ,EQ decides the preferment.” 环境保护 Environmental problems are becoming more and more serious all 1 over the world. For example, cars have made the air unhealthy for people to breathe and poisonous gas is given off by factories. Trees on the hills have been cut down and waste water is being poured continuously into rivers.Furthermore, wherever we go today, we can find rubbish carelessly disposed. Pollution is, in fact, threatening our existence. The earth is our home and we have the duty to take care of it for ourselves and for our later generations. Fortunately, more and more people have realized these problems. Measures have been taken to cope with these problems by the government. Laws have been passed to stop pollution. I hope the problem will be solved in the near future and our home will become better and better. Environmental problems are becoming more and more serious all over the world. With the development of industry and agriculture, 2 cars make great noises and give off poisonous gas. Trees on the hills have been cut down,and waste water is being poured continuously into rivers. Furthermore,wherever we go today, we can find rubbish carelessly disposed. The whole ecological balance of the earth is changing. Massive destruction of environment has brought about negative effects and even poses a great threat to man's existence. We must face the situation that exists and take actions to solve our environmental problems. For instance, new laws must be passed to place strict control over industrial pollution, the pub!ic must receive the education about the hazard of pollution and so on. We hope that all these measures will be effective and bring back a healthful environment. People often say that the earth is like our mother. She gives life to all the living things on the earth and provides us with air, food, water and other essential things we need for living. Once she was beautifhl and rich, but now she becomes dirtier and dirtier, poorer and poorer. It is due to what we have done to her. Please have a good look at her: polluted rivers and lakes, growing deserts, the destruction of the forests and wild life, and the depletion of the ozone layer… Can she bear to see her children putting the waste here and there? Can she bear too see her children cutting down the trees and destroying the grassland, to see the acid rain destroying everything? Can we bear to see our mother suffering so much? Isn' it time for us to ask ourselves whether this is the way to treat our mother? Floods, draughts, acid rain…,these are the punishments from nature. Everyone should know that there is only one earth, lfwe go on treating her like this, it won' t be fit for us to live in any longer. It' s time for us to love her, take good care of her and cure her. We should save the earth so as to save ourselves. the development of modern agriculture and industry, more and more waste water is being poured into rivers. It has caused serious pollution. The river is becoming so dirty that no living things can live in it. The river is giving off a terrible smell. We make an urgent appeal that measures should be taken to cope with the situation. Our government should start building various facilities such as sewage treatment!plant and encourage scientists to work out more and better ways to reduce the pollution of water. Water is tho source of our lives. It is very important to protect water 恋爱问题 Nowadays, love among college students has become increasingly common. Just as depicted in the picture, student lovers are often found on campus, sitting on green grass or on long benches, and studying together in the library. The campus romance has sparked a heated discussion on whether the students should devote their time and energy to love or to learning. The majority of college teachers hold that the students should give up love and concentrate on learning, because campus love is time-consuming and tears them away from their academic studies. If a student ever falls into love, he will undoubtedly neglect his study and lag behind his classmates academically. Therefore, the university authorities should restore the traditional regulations against love during the students’school years. On the contrary, the majority of students believe that it is natural for young people to fall into love on campus because they meet every day and their everyday meeting produces romantic passion towards each other. They insist that campus love is quite natural and that most of them can properly cope with their love and learning. Personally, I am not quite in favor of the students being engaged in campus love. Anyhow, the students’main task at college is to learn knowledge and expertise. But I have no strong words against campus love. Here’s an advice to my fellow students. Don’t indulge yourself too deeply in love, or you will get it in the way of your study. 偶像崇拜 Idol Worship Our class have had a discussion about idol worship. Some of my classmates consider that we need idols that have set examples to us. Meanwhile, our idols' deeds can inspire us to make greater efforts to achieve success. Besides, many people have benefited from idol worship because they have experienced success on their road to fame. But others don' t agree. They believe we never need idols; idol worship can do nothing but waste time and money which we should have spent on study. What' s worse, some unhealthy idol worship may do harm to us as well as to others. As for me, I'm not opposed to idol worship, but we must be aware that idol worship can' t take the place of personal effort. Our future will and should be created by our own hands. 相处 If someone does something that bothers you or offends you, take a moment to relax and just breathe before you relax. Reacting on raw emotion can often make the situation worse. Take 3 deep breaths and count to ten while you breathe in and out, this will help to calm the nervous system and provide you with clarity before you react to something. Giving yourself time to think will also help you think about the consequences for your actions. This can help you make a good decision and avoid making the situation worse. One of the best ways to get along with others is to exercise. Exercise helps to release tension and this allows you to be a better friend because you have a positive mood. Exercise also boosts your self-esteem and self-confidence, both of which can help you survive the hallways of school. Take an exercise class at school and interact with your classmates during this time. This is a great way to get to know them better and you share a common interest which is to take good care of your physical body. When it comes to getting along with your classmates, you may need to make a few changes to your personality. If you are having trouble getting along with others, determine what the roadblock is. Why are your classmates rejecting you? Do you have annoying habits that you can work on to make your relationship better? You don't have to completely change who you are, but you need to be open to change. If you are the friend that tends to hold everyone else back, stop being this friend and try branching out of your comfort zone. 英语学习 B: Hi, A, I have some questions about English study, and I know that you are ver good at English, so can I ask you for some help? A: Sure, go ahead! B: Thank you! First of all, I can never remember the new words. It's driving me crazy. A: Relax. I think you should try to remember fewer words and make sure you can understand them fully and use them in some sentences. B: You mean, instead of learning 20 words everyday, just learn 5 words and make sure I can fully use them? A: Yes. Anything else? B: Oh, sometimes I would have problem understanding some grammar points. A: No problems. Show me the book and I can help you. B: Thanks a lot!! A: You are welcome. 汤姆: I`ve been learning English for a long time, but I still can`t speak English well. I really get disheartened. 我学英语好久了.可我还是说不好英语.我都灰心了. 罗斯: Take your time. Rome wasn`t built in a day. 慢慢来.罗马又不是一天建成的. 汤姆: Can you make any suggestions? 你能给我点建议吗? 罗斯: OK. English is becoming an international language. It`s really important. But like everything else, you really need to practice and practice before you can speak it well. 好的.英语是一种国际语言.它非常重要.可就像任何事情一样.在说好它之前你 需要大量的练习. 汤姆: How? 怎么练? 罗斯: Well. Let me take something for instance. You know, when people first learn to drive a car, they can`t do it well. They`ll make a lot of mistakes. They may step on the gas when it`s time to stop the car. But that`s natural. That happens to everyone. 我给你举个例子吧.你知道当人们学开车的时候.他们会犯很多错误.在该刹车的 时候他们可能会踩油门.可那很正常.每个人都犯这种错误. 汤姆: I know what you mean. 我懂你的意思. 罗斯: Learning English is just like driving a car. All you have to do is to practice and don`t be afraid of making mistakes. Because the more mistakes you make, the quicker you can learn English well. 学英语就像开车一样.你需要做的就是练习.别怕犯错误.你犯的错越多.就越能 快点好英语. 汤姆: It`s easy to say, but hard to do. 说起来容易做起来难. 罗斯: Just take your time. I`m always glad to help and don`t forget that language is not about those words or grammar rules. Cultural background plays a vital role as well. 别着急啊.我会帮你的.别忘了语言不仅仅是单词加语法.文化背景也很重要. 汤姆: Thanks for your advice. 谢谢你的建议. 罗斯: You`re welcome.