西方餐桌礼仪-Table-Manners(英文)课件

TableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestTablemannersreferstotheetiquetteusedwhileeating,whichmayalsoincludetheappropriateuseofutensils.Differentculturesobservedifferentrulesfortablemanners.Manytablemannersevolvedoutofpracticality.TableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestForexample,itisgenerallyimpolitetoputelbowsontables,sincedoingsocreatesariskoftippingoverbowlsandcups.Eachfamilyorgroupsetsitsownstandardsforhowstrictlytheserulesaretobeenforced.TableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestARRIVALSFollowasdirectedbythereceptionistMakesureyouhavethecorrectseatSocializewiththepersonnexttoyouReadtheprogramAvoidgoinginandoutoftheDinningHallTalksoftlyTableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestUsingyournapkinThemealactuallybeginswhenthehostorhostessunfoldshisorhernapkin.TableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestUsingyournapkinPlaceyournapkinonyourlap,completelyunfoldedifitisasmallluncheonnapkin,orinhalfdiagonally,acrossyourlappointatyourknees,ifitisalargedinnernapkin.TableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestUsingyournapkinNevertuckthenapkinintoanypartofyourclothingorremoveitduringthemeal,unlessyouarecalledupontostandforatoast.Inthatcase,foldyournapkinneatlyandplaceittotheleftofyourplatebeforestanding,anddonotforgettoreturnittoyourlapwhenretakingyourseat.TableMannersandTableEtiquetteintheWestUsingyournapkinThenapkinremainsonyourlapthroughoutthemealandshouldyouneedto,andaftereachcoursewithoutfail,itshouldbeusedtogentlyblotyourmouth.THECORRECTWAYTOHOLDCUTLERYandGOBLETTHECORRECTWAYTOHOLDCUTLERYandGOBLETFORMALTableSettingDO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERBEPUNCTUALTakeyourinvitationcardwithyouandpresentitonarrival(ifnecessary)DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERWithformaldinner,seatingisinvariablyarrangedbeforehandandyouwillbeusheredorshowntoyourseat.DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERKeepcalm.Whenthedishesstartcoming,letheothersatthetablestartfirstandobservedwhattheyuse.Startwiththecutleryfromtheoutside.DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERThesimpleruletobearinmindduringaformalmealisthatguestsneverhaveareasontotouchaplatewiththeirhandsandtodosowouldinsultthehost.DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERDonotoverdressOrtoomuchjewelryused.Donotmakeuporcombingyourhairatthetable.DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERDrinkingtoomuchwhendiningisveryimpoliteandoneofthemostdislikedbehaviors.Itisbadmannerstodrainaglasscompletelyataformalfunction.DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERDonottalkwhenyourfoodisinthemouth.Donotsmokeatthetable.Ignoremistakesmadebytheserver.Pleasantconversations.DO’SandDON’T’SFORFORMALDINNERDonotbiteyournailsorusingtoothpicksatthetables.Trynottomakenoisewiththecutlery,platesorglasses.SampleDialogue1Hostess:Wouldyouliketohavesomemorechicken?Guest:No,thankyou.Thechickenisverydelicious,butI'mjusttoofull.Host:ButIhopeyousavedroomfordessert.Marymakesverygoodpumpkinpies.SampleDialogue1Guest:Thatsoundsverytempting.ButIhopewecanwaitalittlewhile,ifyoudon'tmind.Host:Ofcourse.Howaboutsomecoffeeorteanow?Guest:Tea,please.Thanks.SampleDialogue2A:whataboutsomebeer?  B:No,thanks.Idon’tdrinkbeeratnoon.A:Goodevening,sir.Yourorder,please?  B:Appetizerfirst.Whatdoyouhavetonight? SampleDialogue2A:Freshfruitcocktail,juices…  B:Orangejuice,please.  A:O.K.Orangejuice!A:Here’sagiftforyou.  B:Sobeautiful!Whatalovelything! SampleDialogue2A:Pleasedo.You’vehardlyeatenanything.  B:it’sdelicious.ButIdon’tthinkIcan.A:Wouldn’tyouliketohavesomemorechicken?  B:NO,thanks.Ijustcouldn’teatanymore. SampleDialogue2A:Comeonnow;surelyyoucanmanageit.  B:Well,maybeIcouldmanageaverysmallpiece.UsefulExpressionsOfferanInvitation1)Iwaswonderingifyou’dliketocometodinneratmyplacenextSaturdayevening. 2)I’dliketoinviteyoutodinnernextFridayevening. 3)WouldyouliketocometodinnernextSundayevening?UsefulExpressionsAcceptanInvitation1)That’sverykindofyou.Thankyou.2)Thatwouldbeverynice.Thankyou.3)Oh,thankyouverymuch.I’dliketocomeverymuch.4)Howkindofyou!I’dbedelightedtocome.Thankyou.UsefulExpressionsDeclineanInvitation1)That’sverykindofyou,butI’mafraid… 2)Oh,thankyou..I’dloveto,butI’mafraid… 3)Oh,thatwouldbelovely,butI’mafraid…whatapity!UsefulExpressionsOntheTable1)Pleasehelpyourself. 2)Makeyourselfathome. 3)Couldyoupleasepassthesalt? 4)CanIhelpyouwithanything?  5)CanIgiveyouahand?UsefulExpressionsWhentheGuestistoLeave1)I’mafraidImustbegoing. 2)IguessIoughttobegoing. 3)Thankyouforalovelydinner. 4)Thankyouforawonderfulevening.5)It’sbeenverynice.Thankyou.UsefulExpressionsWhentheHostistoSayBye-bye1)Thankyouforcoming. 2)Pleasestayforasecondcupofcoffee,willyou?3)Wedohopeyouaresatisfied.